Life With One Eye Open

Frequency Counter

“Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it.  Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”

~ Albert Einstein

For every choice, reaction, mishap, and crash and burn there is an energetic consequence. Life is full of triggers, people in transference, and some good ole fashion lashing out.  How we choose to engage in the energy exchange will be contingent on where we are on our own vibrational plain.

I just spent the last two weeks reacting to everything around me.  It all started with one person batting down against my moral fibers. The trigger came swift and unnoticeable by anyone else, but there I was submersing myself knee deep in transference. Once I went down that path I couldn’t find my way out.  But, being accountable, found me delving deep into my vibrational frequency patterns to keep it from ever happening again.

I wan’t aware how easy it is for someone else to turn your dial.  But there you are, struggling to make sense of how you ended up in someone else’s radio show.  The consequences can take you down face first into the proverbial gutter, or if you’re anything like me, give you something else to learn.

Nothing good ever comes out of reacting. I’ve listened to people be irrational, accusatory and resort to name calling.  There are three sides to every story.  Yours, mine and what really happened.  People choose what they want to believe based on their own belief system. They hear what they want to hear. They need circumstances to fit into the circumference of their world and it blinds them from reality.

I like being accountable.  There is a sense of freedom in being able to step outside yourself and see people and things for what they really are. And here’s the thing, we all do it. We all just do it in our own way.  Some people are passive, they don’t let others see what they’re doing to instigate a behavior pattern out of someone. Some people are in your face, they are confrontational about it. Some people spread their version of a story making one person the fall guy.  Some people raise their voice to get their point across when a whisper says so much more.

This list goes on and on and on.  But it can all stop here.  If we’re honest with ourselves and the energy around us, at the end of the day it doesn’t matter what people think. It doesn’t matter what people say about you to others or even to your face.  My mother always taught me that you never lash out in anger because, whatever it is you’re saying, well, you might as well be looking in a mirror.

That knowledge helps me stay true to my energy fields. Far from perfect, it is invaluable that on this never ending w chasing journey lessons pop up everywhere.  Realizing that some things are just out of our control helped me see that even though you give 110% to something, if doesn’t go the way people want it to go they won’t remember the 110%.  You had never had a chance anyway.

The reality of my reactionary behavior had me pretty bummed out.  I thought I had grown more than this.  So I did what I do best. I found a shortcut to conquering yet another lesson in life 101. I did hypnosis to implant the seed deep into my subconscious that I never get caught up in it. That I stay cool, calm and collected in all things. That instead of being in transference and instead of reacting, I take a deep breath, and know that the energy can stay calm if I don’t help it spin out of control.

At the end of the day, we only have to answer to ourselves and to God. No matter what happens always do your best and be your best and don’t be afraid that you’re not perfect. Don’t be afraid when others don’t understand you or any given circumstance. Don’t be afraid that people might talk shit about you, they don’t know any better.  Don’t be afraid to be honest and truthful. And don’t be afraid to change.

The energy we exude will alter our reality. It really is that simple. We have the power so why wouldn’t we choose to put the frequencies of good, positive, energetic, solution oriented, humble, empathetic, sympathetic, helpful, and grateful out into the universe?

It’s never to late to change.

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Dream

“So shines a good deed in a weary world.  A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men. We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams.”

~  Willy Wonka

It’s a beautiful sunny day on the water as I sit inside with my bowl of comfort food doing research for the 2 new projects I’ve taken on. (yes I know how much can one person put on her plate?  A lot?) My mentor told me once, “If you throw enough shit at the wall, something’s bound to stick!”  And well, truth be told, I just can’t help but dream of all my endeavors successfully up on some monumental wall display.

• a cherished aspiration, ambition, or ideal •

Dreams are powerful. Dreams will teach us if we let them. Dreams become reality when implemented. Dreams keep us young. Dreams help us live. Dreams encourage us to believe.

There’s no going back.  I’ve crossed the threshold of what it takes to believe in your abilities and my experiments would make Einstein proud.  It’s all relative and I am staying true to my entrepreneurial spirit and trusting the angels that are guiding me, by following the paths I am shown.

 •  indulge in daydreams or fantasies, typically about something greatly desired  •

How could I resist writing when my vibrational level has taken me up so many flights of stairs? The energetic forces are powering me up a like rail train and yet even with how fast I’m traveling I can see every detail as I pass. I am absorbing the messages like a sponge and my creative juices have me feeling pretty motivated.

• a series of thoughts, images, and sensations occurring in a person’s mind during sleep •

We are all capable of following our dreams. We must honor who we really are. Remember what’s important to us. Live each day is if it were our last. We must not lose sight of what’s important to us. We can’t forget our dreams. We have to know that we are the biggest miracle. The greatest surprise. The most wonderful breathtaking, capable of anything, incredibly beautiful, magnificently gorgeous, miracle.  We really are the dreamers of the dreams.

• a person or thing perceived as wonderful or perfect •

Don’t stop dreaming okay?

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smarttype

We have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Listen more, say less. But in a day in the life of a blurter it’s hard to keep cool without any auto correct.

The good thing is (or so I am told) blurters are people who can be trusted. They have no filter so they don’t have time to process a lie. Well how much trouble can that get you in?  A lot.

On my early morning walk today I realized something. I’ve crossed the threshold. My de-brainwashing myself is working and my undeniable faith that the Angels won’t leave my side opens me up to a perspective I might not have thought of on my own.

Having been the queen of pushing people away most of my life, I had perfected the art of saying the perfect thing that would prove me right. Sometimes I even surprised myself by the geeky, silly, makes no sense, should be a misdemeanor to be this verbally clumsy kind of nonsense. But in the end there is a purpose and there is a reason for everything.

And this too shall pass. With practice we get more in tune with what we desire. Within some experiences we might realize, “Oh drat, I kinda wanted more of that”, but there’s no going back and so we file away the memory and we are thankful for the reference of how we want it to be in the future.

Do you know how before you do something for the first time it can seem like the scariest thing, but then once you do it, you’re like, really? I was scared of that?!  That’s life for a lot of us. We get insecure, we stumble and we get self-conscious. Some of the most beautiful people in the world are the most insecure.  Some of the most intelligent people are the quietest.  Where do you fit in?

For most of us, we fall somewhere in the middle and we allow ourselves to fall prey to our own quintessential typos as if there is something wrong with being human. Being human unto itself should be considered super hero status. Our flaws make us unique, our quirks help us stand out, and our intrinsic spirits make us powerful.

Most of the time, if we were to keep score, we get exactly what we ask for. Whether you speak it aloud or write it down or let your incessant internal typewriter pulse away at the keys; your words, your thoughts and your intentions are forming the basis of how your life looks. Typos and all.

Life isn’t about auto-corrections. It’s about experiencing what comes. It takes practice to change and to allow and to create new things. It takes patience. You may have to visit the drawing board over and over until you get it right but your life’s purpose is worth every second you spend moving forward, not hovered over your typewriter with white-out.

Are there things I wish I would have done differently? Most certainly. Do I regret my experiences? Not all of them. Do I want what I can’t have? Not anymore.

Pushing past whatever story you thought you had written for yourself, is taking chances and not being concerned with the outcome. It’s breaking out of your shell no matter how scary. It’s not being afraid to falter. It’s walking up to a stranger and saying, “You’re cute”.

It’s getting out of your own way so you can be perfectly human in all it’s glorious imperfections and surprises.

And hopefully, most of the time, it’s taking life’s blunders, blurts and bloopers and letting them make you laugh.

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Seal it With A Kiss

What unseen fields are permeating your universe?  Do you view yourself as an organism in the environment?  What if I asked you to entertain the fact that you are an enviro-organism?  Are you willing to take a peek into your life to see what resides there?

It’s impossible to evolve if you don’t allow your perceptions to change with the times. We must entertain the notion that we are one with everything around us.  As we grow and learn and hypothesize over the transitions it will be inevitable that we alter our conclusions.

As we exchange energy with people we are given the gift of the mirror mirror on the wall. The triggers will either effect you, putting you in a state of transference, or they will intrigue you, putting you in a state of willingness to learn.

In the acceptance to learn from all encounters there will always be an energetic absorption of information.

Words only tell us so much, although sometimes too much and other times not enough.  If we don’t express ourselves completely and organically the listener is left to make their own assumptions. Words in the end can confuse things, make us stumble and make us second guess ourselves. Sometimes they are just used as a cover up for what we are really feeling anyway.

Our verbal perceptions of our sensibilities tend to get in the way. It’s not organic. As we exchange words we take away from what our innate messages are trying to tell us and each other.

When was the last time you had an animalistic exchange of emotions with someone? Have you ever looked into someones eyes and they said it all? A mirror into the soul. A reflection that can’t be masked or imitated.

Sometimes it’s better not to say anything. To just be. To envelope the purity in the silence. To express yourself in other ways. More powerful ways.

Change it with a dance. Finish it with a laugh. Move it with a hug. Seal it with a kiss.

Give in. Let go. Be one with everything around you. Trust it. Love it. Embody it.

In silence say I love you to yourself and to the world at large. Be one with the Universe and everything in it.

Hold hands.

Blow kisses.

Be grateful.

By pcarlson Category: adaptation, blog, Featured, intention, love, manifestation, Recent Posts, self motivation, trust

On the Look Out

A modern day version of existentialism may never go out of style. A fate of uncertainty if you are flying blind but if you leap the net will appear.

Where ever you go there you are so when you finally wake up you might not recognize where you’re standing. Ignorance can be bliss but knowledge is crucial and awareness is half the battle.  The road less traveled may find you lost in the reactions of other peoples ignorance and dispair.

How do we calm the mind? When will we stop having so much to say? How will we implement our new belief systems so they become ingrained in us like the stamps in our passport?

The moment we stop reacting will be the moment we know peace. Letting yourself be affected by someone else’s short comings, essentially means you gave away your power. Even though the goal is to stay in the moment, know that the moment allots for the few seconds it takes to make your decision to engage or let it go.

Being in conflict over exchanges with others seems par for the course but does any of it really matter? Why would you let the denials of someone else’s past effect you? At the end of any given day, we all have our shit/baggage/patterns (whatever you want to call it), but the best way to get through life is to find people who’s shit is compatible with yours. Or people who care enough to help you unpack it.

Having been blessed with the wonderment of a child has fundamentally lead to me being the W Chaser.  I see when the intellect gets in the way by my gestures and reactions. I know when the Angels are by my side by my open will and expanded heart. I know when I am working through my own story by my relentless rhetoric and intrigue (like now).

Always on the look out for a sign, a message and some good ole fashion reinforcements brings with it a confidence that you really can ask and you shall receive.  So choose wisely. Know that sometimes, once you make that choice there’s no going back. Be clear on what the outcome should be. Know the what and let the Universe take care of the how.

While life waits for no one, love has been with us all along. I guess in the end you have to ask yourself, what is it that you’re waiting for? Or does it just seem like you’re waiting because you’re not sure what you’re looking for?

Maybe everything is just completely and utterly and unequivolcally exactly what it’s supposed to be so we should embrace it and bask in it and see where life takes us next.

And maybe instead of looking out we should be looking within. Maybe when we embrace what’s inside of us everything around us will come into clear uninterrupted focus.

There’s so much to see.  Are you looking?

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